Kansas
Kansas
Kansas City - Alternative Hedonistic Source
Topeka - Kink In Northeast Kansas - monthly munches, demos and play parties soon.
Contra Naturam Fetish Troupe - a Lawrence/Kansas City based fetish performance group available for events, parties, private session, and instruction. Stage shows and crowd work featuring bondage, dominance, wax play, fire play, flogging, and the obscurities of sploshing and suspension.ÊThe only limits are those imposed by law, and the imagination of everyone involved. Visit the website or write to booking@contranaturam.net
Kentucky
Lexington - Kentucky Underground Fetish Society - pansexual social and munch group for those in the Central Kentucky area who have an interest in BDSM. They meet on a monthly basis in a friendly, vanilla environment to socialize. The group is Pansexual; all are welcome to attend the munch, there is no discrimination against sexual orientation or preference.
Louisville - Louisville Munch Bunch
The Paradox Group - a D/s organization emphasizing structured discussion and adult play with a strong support system, serving Louisville and the Ohio Valley; also hosts demonstrations and play parties.
LEXKY-Submissive - is a discussion list that serves as a meeting place for Lexington and Central Kentucky Adults, for the purpose of meeting and sharing ideas, experiences, knowledge and information about the BDSM lifestyle as a submissive, slave, switch or bottom, both online (email) and face-to-face.
Louisiana
Lafayette - Acadiana Peoples Power Exchange
MAsT-New Orleans - an affiliate of Masters And slaves Together, Inc. (http://www.MAsT.net). This group is the online presence and announcement list of the New Orleans regional chapter. MAsT is open to all persons desiring to explore topics of concern to persons actively engaged in long-term M/s relationships. MAsT exists as a support group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle. MAsT serves that function best in local Chapters where followers of the Master/slave lifestyle can meet to learn from one another and to support each other. For more information, visit the website or send an email to MAsTNewOrleans@aol.com.
NOBLE "New Orleans Bondage & Leather Enthusiasts" is a BDSM pansexual support, play and social group in the Greater New Orleans, Louisiana area.
Shreveport - S_PortDungeon_Razors_Edge - a BDSM support, education, and outreach group, serving the Shreveport region and all of Northern Louisiana.
The Guild - The Guild is a private, non-political, not-for-profit Group that operates within a modified Old Guard Protocol, and zealously enforces the Dress Code, Dungeon Rules, and Code of Conduct. The Guild is intended for those individuals whose public and/or private lives necessitate heightened confidentiality. Mission Statement: "to allow for each specific group of Tops, Dominants, Masters, submissives, bottoms and/or slaves to freely, openly, and without apology, practice their respective kink in an unrestrictive atmosphere, whether it be Bondage/Discipline; Bondage; Sadism/Masochism; Dominance/submission; and/or, Master/slave delineations, whether from the Mild to the Extreme, with complete assurance that one's confidentiality shall not be compromised." For more information, visit the website or send an email to theguild@neworleans.com.
Maine
Alternative Lifestyles United (ALU) - a new social group in Maine for those involved in alternative lifestyles; meetings are held in the Auburn/Lewiston area. Visit the website or write to aluorg@yahoo.com
NLA New England
Portland - CUFS (Coastal United Fetish Society) - pansexual group, email CUFSmaine@aol.com for more info.
Harbor Masters, Inc - Box 4044 Station "A", Portland, ME 04101
Central Maine Alliance- a pansexual BDSM social/educational organization. Monthly munches, classes and special events available for members and non-members. For more information visit our website at www.CentralMaineAlliance.org or email us at CMA@CentralMaineAlliance.org.
Maryland
Baltimore - The Baltimore Eagle - gay leather club
D&S Society of Baltimore; PO Box 20248, Towson MD 21204.
FIST - women's S/M group
The Power Exchange
The Society; PO Box 844, Chicopee MD 01021.
The Utopia Society
Massachusetts
New England BDSM - Personals and links for New Englanders
Alston - The K.M. Society; PO Box 66, Alston MA 02134.
Boston - Boston Burgermunch; email for info.
Boston Dungeon Society
Common Bond; women's group, PO Box 390313, Boston MA 02139.
Defenders Boston - Catholic leather society, 55 E. Springfield St., Boston, MA 02118
New England NLA
The Northeast Erotic
Spanking Society
Restraints - social club & dungeon
Charlestown - Boston United Leather Legion; A gay, lesbian, bi, and transgender group, PO Box 287, Charlestown MA 02129.
Hadley - Bound and Determined, women's group, PO Box 602, Hadley MA 01035.
Medford - Urania; women's group, PO Box 501, Medford MA 02155.
Northampton - East Coast FTM Group; PO Box 60585, Florence Station, Northampton, MA 01060
Links - pansexual group, meets monthly at Intimicies in downtown Northampton.
One Society - email OneSociety@aol.com
Shelix; women's group, PO Box 416, Northampton, MA 01060-0416
Randolph - The Esoterica Society; PO Box 37, Randolph, MA 02368
Springfield - The Western Massachusetts Power Exchange
Waltham - Northeast Spanking Society - couples only group
Michigan
Southeastern Michigan Munch
Bay City - Leather and Lace Society; PO Box 2415, Bay City MI 48707.
Detroit - Metropolitan Detroit Spanking Society
The Mich Chat OHS--(dinner/discussion group)
eupBDSM - a new yahoo group in the eastern upper peninsula of Michigan for people interested in or active in the D/s, BDSM lifestyles.
Stocks and Bonds - Box 250451, West Bloomfield, Mi. 48325 email mistlissa@aol.com
XTC Club - PO Box 380151, Clinton Township, MI 48038
Grand Rapids Dinners and Parties; email chuc@i2k.com for info
K-COMPP (Kalamazoo Couples Only Munch/Play Party) - Private Group, dinners and discussions. Write to SteelMagnolians@excite.com for more info.
Muskegon - Rask Parties - monthly parties, email chuc@i2k.com for more info.
Minnesota
Minneapolis - ATONS - gay leather club
Knights of Leather; women's group, PO Box 10601, Minneapolis, MN 55458
Minneapolis-St. Paul Women's Group - use this email link to contact them for more information.
TIES (Tremendously Intense Erotic Situations) - "Where the Elite Meet to Beat" - a pansexual organization for the Leather, B&D, D/S, S&M, and other kinky acronym people in the Mpls/St Paul Minnesota area; large mailing list, monthly munches and play parties. TIES, 3208 West Lake Street, Suite 50, Minneapolis, MN 55416.
Minnetonka - Midwest Discussion Group - 4737 S. Hwy 101 #124 Minnetonka, MN 55345 - use this email link for more information.
Erik Renfield's BDSM Page - Erik has a good page with Minnesota BDSM info
Knights of Leather - a nationally recognized pansexual, pangender organization dedicated to providing opportunities for all people, regardless of race, religion, gender, age or sexual preference, to learn and explore the culture of BDSM.
Mississippi
Gulfport/Biloxi - Southern Thorns And Roses; pansexual BDSM group, email for info
Jackson - Jackson Mississippi Munch Group
Missouri
Kansas City - Alternative Hedonistic Source - PO Box 414545, Kansas City, MO 64141
St. Louis - Fetish Lifestyle Open Group (FLOG) - pansexual fetish/BDSM social and disscussion lifestyle group , also has a couple's and women's group; sponsors a monthly public meeting/play party (attendance averages around 40 new faces each month).
Gynecrocrat Alliance; PO Box 13034, St. Louis MO 63122
KC Pioneers - gay/lesbian leather group
St. Louis Leather and Lace - a pansexual BDSM organization
St. Louis Munch - no website for this one but for information send an email to SilvrLion@mindspring.com.
PEP St. Louis - click the group name for their new website location or you can email them here pepstlouis@pep-stl.com
St. Louis Scene Page
TNGoK - The Next Generation of Kink - a new Saint Louis, Missouri group for those with an interest in bdsm within the age range 21-35.
MoMunch - a BDSM pansexual social group for people in the Kc, Mo and local surrounding area(s). Visit the webpage above or send an email to join the mailing list.
Montana
Montana_BDSM - A discussion list for sharing information and support of BDSM activities. Bringing like minded people together in a safe and non-threatening atmosphere. Based in Western Montana, but open to all.
Nebraska
Leather or Knot Omaha - a new lifestyle business serving the D/s, BDSM, Gay, Gor, Gothic and Leather community; located at 4010 Hamilton St, Omaha, NE 68131, (402) 614-3842.
anyone have another Nebraska group listing for us..?
Nevada
Las Vegas - Las Vegas BDSM Munch FAQ
Shibari
Delicious Decadence - a group created by Diva & Daddy - a lifestyle Las Vegas Domme & Dom couple from the music/entertainment industry - to enlighten and introduce interested and curious people from all walks of life into the world of Ds. They accept all sincere members regardless of experience or scene status as long as common sense and courtesy are upheld.
SinCityDsNetwork - a free membership pansexual ADULT social
group in Las Vegas, NV that welcomes individuals 21 and over with an
interest in BD/SM and the D/s lifestyle. SinCityDs hosts an active
weekly friday night social, a monthly potluck discussion group, and a
yahoo message board with over 900 members. www.sincityds.com
New Hampshire
PENE - Power Exchange of New England - a pansexual bdsm group, formed to serve the southern NH and VT areas. They offer munches, education, socialization, and other events.
Visit http://www.fortunecity.com/boozers/princessdi/725/index.htm for more information. Or email powerexchangene@yahoo.com
White Mountains Different Strokes - a new group that encompasses, at this time, 3 munch groups in the White Mountains and Upper Valley of New Hampshire. Their goal is to provide a place where those interested in seriously exploring BDSM (either online or in a more physical sense), may come for information, to ask questions and learn more about the lifestyle.
We need more group listings for New Hampshire - please send what you know about.
New Jersey
Statewide Kinkhouse BDSM Directory and calendar
Lady Laura - email link to fetish illustrator.
Tinny's Wood Works - paddle maker.
Atlantic City Intimate Friends - email link to a swinger club
Atlantic Highlands The Fantasy Chateau - a BDSM BBS & Party Network. PO Box 290, Atlantic Highlands, NJ 07716. email partyman@partyman.com
Central NJ Toga Joe's Temple - swing event host
Flemington Top O' The Hill - swinger club
Iselin Knot for Everyone (KFE) - PO Box 263, Iselin, NJ 08830. email knot4evry1@aol.com
Montclair Dressing for Pleasure - fetishwear retailer and event sponsor.
New Brunswick New PEP New Brunswick; call 908-281-8689.
Silent Vow Society - BBWs.
Northern NJ New Jersey Dungeon Society/Usher's Keep
Passaic The Couples Club; PO Box 325, Passaic NJ 07055.
Pennsauken Behind The Scenes - has a TNG group.
SwingersUSA - swinger club
Rahway Entre Nous - swinger club
Somerset Tri-State; PO Box 7205, Somerset NJ 08875.
Union County Beginnnings - swing club
The Mission - munches/parties in PA and NJ.
New Mexico
Albuquerque - Alternative Erotic Lifestyles, PO Box 80676, Albuquerque, NM 87198 phone (505) 345-6484 email AELmail@yahoo.com
PEP National Headquarters - phone (505) 764-5748, (505)260-1324
Silver City - Grant County Power Exchange Group
New York
APPLEMUNCH NYC - email tje3@columbia.edu, email lyrra@cybernex.net, or email nrkissed@juno.com
Conversio Virium - Columbia University
Defenders NY; Catholic leather society, PO Box 1146, Old Chelsea Station, New York, NY 10011
DomSubFriends - a members only pan-sexual BDSM support group for open minded people in the NY, NJ, CT, PA, MASS, RI, MD, and East Coast area. Demos, lectures, munches, parties, socializing, sharing ideas/knowledge and most off all having fun among fellow BDSM'ers.
DsDesires - D/s & BDSM Events, including dungeon parties, workshops, seminars & BDSM weekends. Pansexual, 21 and over.
Gay Male S/M Activists
The Eulenspiegal Society - PO Box 2783, New York, N.Y. 10163-2783 phone (212) 388-7022
Hellfire Club - 28 9th Ave. (14th St. and 9th Ave.), Manhattan phone (212)647-0063
Lesbian Sex Mafia
Long Island Ravens; women's group, c/o Long Island Eagles, 94 North Clinton, Bay Shore NY 11706.
MAsT of Metro New York - MAsT (Masters And slaves Together) is a national organization with local chapters that provide support to those in the Master-Mistress/slave or Owner/property lifestyles through discussion and social opportunities. It is open to those who are presently in or wish to be in a household/relationship with such a dynamic. MAsT: Metro New York is a pansexual chapter (open to all genders and orientations) serving the NYC and tri-state area. MAsT of Metro New York meets first Sunday each month.
New York Area S/M Activists
NLA New York; PO Box 488 Triborough Station, New York, NY 10035
New York Bondage Club; men's group, PO Box 7280, New York NY 10116.
New York Metro D&S Singles; #21 3395 Nostrand Ave. Brooklyn NY 11229.
NY Renegades - (play parties, men's group)
Peter Boots' Gay Leather SM Fetish Guide to NYC
Staten Island Munch; contact Mazie or call (718) 815-1358
The Vault; (BDSM club) 565 West 23rd Street, Manhattan phone (212) 255-6758
Without Restraint
Long Island Leather Munch - 1017 E Jericho Tpk, Huntington Station, 2-3miles E of Rt 110, email ldysondra@ldysondra.com for info.
Long Island Leather N Roses - mailing list of a group that meets weekly.
Rochester - Rochester Kink Society - phone 716-234-0515
North Carolina
Asheville - Western Carolinas Alternative Lifestyle Lovers
Charlotte - LINX
CAPEX -- The Charlotte Area Power Exchange - a not-for profit group providing support, education and discrete play opportunities for those interested in BDSM as a lifestyle choice in the Charlotte, NC area. Website: www.geocities.com/capexweb/ EMail: capexweb@yahoo.com
CLOAK - Charlotte Lovers Of All Kink - Covering the Black Community and its admirers. CLOAK is a pansexual BDSM organization oriented toward the black community and its admirers in Charlotte, NC and the surrounding area.ÊWe are an open and accepting group with the purpose of providing a warm and friendly atmosphere for discussion and education regarding BDSM activities.Ê CLOAK espouses SAFE, SANE and CONSENSUAL BDSM practices and offers a non-judgmental, relaxed environment for everyone, from those making the initial transition to real time BDSM to veteran scene players. If you would like more information please visit our website or email CLOAK at cloakweb2002@yahoo.com.
Tradesmen, Inc; men's group, PO Box 36712, Charlotte NC 28204.
Tradesman, Inc; PO Box 36712, Charlotte, NC 28204
Greensboro - Rope Desires - Mailing list - To subscribe to the mail-list, send email to RDGroup1@aol.com and
put "subscribe RDGroup" without the quote marks in the body of the
message. To UNsubscribe, same thing but use unsubscribe.
TALON - for more info, email talon@talon-nc.org
NC_BDSM Mail List Info - To subscribe to the mail-list, send email to majordomo@psicorps.org and
put "subscribe NC_BDSM" without the quote marks in the body of the
message. To UNsubscribe, same thing but use unsubscribe.
Further questions to drgnslyr@mindspring.com
Piedmont - SPANK - Southern Piedmont Advocates of Negotiated Kink, email SPANKinNC@aol.com
Raleigh-Durham - Dark Shadow
Triangle Area Munch and Social Group Mailing list - To subscribe to the mail-list, send email to majordomo@psicorps.org and
put "subscribe triangle" for general list and "subscribe tri-ann" for the announcements only list without the quote marks in the body of the message. To UNsubscribe, same thing but use unsubscribe. Further questions to mountain@magenta.com
Wilmington - CROP - for more info email Wilm Crop@aol.com
North Dakota
We need a group listing for North Dakota - please send what you know about.
State listings continue from the previous page. You can use
this link - Support Groups USA ~ Part I - to go there now.
Or use this link to move to the next page of state
listings at - Support Groups USA ~ Part III